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Char25 | Hi guys I have some ongoing problems with female friends. Often they turn 'against' me at some stage when i've done nothing to them at all. Often its due to the guy(s) they like who likes me more (supposedly anyway).I could understand it if i were a backstabbing, bitchy type but i am not at all. I always get on with men better and i just can't understand why its always like this. It makes life miserable sometimes, causing constant uneasiness. Is it Capricorn on the 11th house cusp that generally gives one jealous, withholding friends? Heres my chart...http://s1159.photobucket.com/user/Charlotte_Nelson/media/charlottenatalbirthchart_zpsk1xswq2u.gif.html?o=2. Any advice would be really appreciated |
Randall | Bump! |
Char25 | lol....I really thought someone kind would help me interpret! I do know some people based on chart energies have more interaction with men over women and vice versa!! |
ikja | You haven't posted your chart properly. |
athenaia | Ha, tell me how I knew you must have had an Aries Venus and an air moon like me.. the worst sign for showing gooey, adoring "outward" affection and the worst element when contrasted with the maternal, loving and peaceful signs like Cancer/Taurus for the expression of our inner life. This doesn't jive with the tone of "femininity" or sisterhood in most cultures in the world. And your Venus/Moon are opposite! Mine are sextile so at least I can feign "sweetness" (as tailored to most women's tastes and expectations) for a certain period of time until I can leave the environment and be abrasive ole me again. With Merc on your ASC you must be a very charming, verbally quick person (even though its in detriment in Pisces) which makes a lot of women feel inadequate when comparison to your social grace. Plus with Pisces/Aries/Libra as your "Big Three" I'm willing to be you're a real "woman's man" and get along with men effortlessly. You're probably beautiful at that. Perfect breeding ground for hating you before they even get to know you |
Char25 | Us Venus in Aries girls cannot get on with females very easily - is this true? Thanks i see what you are saying but what further damage does an air sign moon do? Libra is suppose to be a female friendly sign (?). Does anyone know if this has anything to do with Cap on the 11th house cusp - i can imagine saturn there isn't kind. |
Char25 | Can someone tell me how to post my chart so its visible on the section? |
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Liliya | It's very simple, you are an attractive girl and women see you as a threat. |
Enneline | wide moon/plut conj in the 8 h: seems that you may sometimes come across as too mysterious, maybe even a bit scary, esp since Pluto is inconjunct sun in 1st in aries. You may come across as too bossy/scary/ too arrogant for some. Also, neptune (ruler of your asc), mars and Uranus in the 10h squaring your sun in aries in 1st. could lead to some irritating opintions about your Person. I think you may sometimes come across as too arrogant & somehow strange. That's why some don't like you. |
Char25 | Thank youuuuu guys! Very appreciated. But most people would disregard moon conjunct pluto at such a wide orb? (some astrologers look at nothing over 7 degrees)! Also i am a very self reflective person, aware of how i come across. 'scary' and 'bossy' is not how i appear ..in fact the opposite! You're forgetting all the passive Pisces drenching my chart, as well as peace maker Libra. Oops! |
Enneline | I sometimes do count wide conjunctions, esp when they are in the same house and since it is the 8 h and the moon (the female side, and one thing females will note right away), i really consider it. yes, i do see you have a pisces ascendant but you can also find aries in your 1st house. I have cancer asc and the first house is "ruled" by leo as well- so i know the contradicitve appearances that may cause; sometimes i would come across as sensitive & caring and sometimes as wild. Of course some girls are just jealous unfortunately we can become disgusting among our own gender I would also consider that mercury is conjunct asc in the 12h house. a planet from the 12 h conjuncting the asc, may sometimes lead to others considerung you "strange" (+ moon & pluto in the 8h). Nonetheless i don't think that you are an unpopular person. It's just that those aspects & configurations could be an explanation of your experiencs (apart from the jealousy factor), You can also check the asteroid "medusa", They say if Medusa is prominent in your chart, you will experience jealousy from females
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Char25 | Thank you for your effort in response enneline. I just had a friend tell me i 'flirted' with her sisters boyfriend and a guy she liked and spent all my time at her party interacting with the guys and not the girls. Does anyone know aspects that suggest more involvement with male kind? In this case perhaps venus in Aries explains it..afterall if venus is what we like - Aries likes male energy |
hmm | if you perfer guys over girls could they see you as a traitor? also, it seems like you have a bit of issues with girls as well so maybe they pick up on that the whole flirting thing in your last comment, i feel for them to be upset the guy would have either hit on you and you didn't do much to stop them or you provoked him to flirt with you either way it would make a girl watch you around her guy |
athenaia | - |
Char25 | Thanks Athenaia ..so you have a lot of 'Aries' in your chart i assume? It would not be narcissistic to list the aspects/signs you have, anyone can help interpret it. Aquarius moon for women i've noticed tend to have issues around femininity I'd agree - even if its untrue they don't feel they have 'sex appeal'.Its one of those 'feminist' moons!(men hate that) I agree most of what you said, but actually the 8th house moon causes 'blocked emotions' in people that swirl in an undercurrent, same with moon opposing venus. I relate entirely to the Libra moon description because my family has called me a 'peacemaker' since birth (remember high percentile of Pisces too).My moon aspects - sextile uranus, neptune and mars help override the 8th house placement. (this is just how i objectively interpret it) All 8th house moon does is intensify the feeling nature more than air sign moon alone would - but its still an air sign moon ..sign is of more importance (in every case than house, house is secondary). women with moon /asc in Aries would run into trouble i predict - the moon placement by sign is so much an indicator of how we as women 'project' our emotions. |